Part 1
There are many reasons for a man to wear a chastity belt. There are some that chastity is merely part of a fantasy, play that ends once they leave the bedroom. For others it is life long never to have and orgasm to again, or at least not often. It may be worn to show devotion, to punish or be punished, or as a personal challenge. I can’t attest to why anyone else allow there genitals to be locked away from them only why I do.
I don’t want to moralize or preach, but within a committed relationship masturbation is just plain wrong. It saps the will of a man to truly please his wife, and dishonors her by turning his lust and desire towards other women. This is surely a type of cheating, at the very least a betrayal of the pleasure that rightly belongs to her. By gifting your wife with the keys to your sex a man bestows honor to his wife and marriage, he also gains strength for himself.
Next on strength in part 2
About Me
- Mknight
- Long time devotee of a beautiful woman, and am lucky she leads me. A loving female authority relationship and the peace it brings is what all men should desire.
Very nice post.
ReplyDeleteYou are right the cage is worn for many reasons,I would feel wrong masturbating without Lo7 knowing, I think she has me wear the cage just to remind me my manhood is not mine to play with.
Although I do not wear a chasity device and Jane has never indicated to me that I should, ever since I decided that I wanted to submit myself to Jane, I have refrain from masturbating completely. For the same reasons, I agree with you that masturbation is a form of cheating because I am ashamed to say that when I masturbated, I did often think of other women. Now I remain completley faithful to Jane, both physically and mentally, dedicating myself soley to her pleasure. In this way I remain focused on Jane, and can maintain a heightened sense of submission and attention, my sexual urges satisfied purley by being able to serve and attend to Jane's needs.
ReplyDeleteI don't think that Jane fully appreciates this yet, so is therefore reluctant to keep me chaste.
My wife never minded my masturbating or looking at porn, "as long as it didn't interfere with sex." She thought I did it once every couple of weeks and thought it was funny when she would "catch" me in the mornings, looking at porn while she was asleep.
ReplyDeleteLittle did she know it was almost daily, sometimes more than once a day, and that was why we could go weeks at a time without being physically intimate together... so while I had her permission and she enjoyed it, I abused that privilege and am now grateful that she controls it, I feel so much closer to her knowing that my energy, my focus is all on her and on the rare occassions I am free to touch myself even my fantasies are about her.
You are right to a certain extent. But what you say may not be that certain when your wife gives you inadequate, or in some instances, no sexual attention. Would mastrubation under those circumstances still be cheating? Skip the fantasy before you answer this, please.
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ReplyDeleteTo answer your question yes it would be. The reason I think so is because instead of talking the problem out with your wife you are selfishly taking matters into your own hands. If that does not work and the couple is still unable to have a happy and healthy sex life seeing a marriage counelors maybe the right step.
@Mknight: You wrote: ...but within a committed relationship masturbation is just plain wrong. It saps the will of a man to truly please his wife, and dishonors her by turning his lust and desire towards other women. This is surely a type of cheating, at the very least a betrayal of the pleasure that rightly belongs to her. By gifting your wife with the keys to your sex a man bestows honor to his wife and marriage, he also gains strength for himself.
ReplyDeleteI agree. At least the man could ask his wife if he's allowed to masturbate. If it's accepted within the relationship, it's different. But then again it might not doesn't strengthen the bond...