Sunday, March 28, 2010

Your Daughter ?!?

How does your wife train you? Really how does your wife try and help you to be the kind of man she wants/knows you can be? If your wife or dominant partner is like mine some part of training is the use of sex. For my part I have no problem with this. In fact I love that she has locked my sex away for her use, and that she has taken the time to understand and accept my submissive nature, more importantly for her own happiness she has embrace her own dominant side.
It seems like the longer that I read other peoples blogs about female led relationships the more they begin to stray into female supremacy. I know I have posted on this before an I will do my best to make this the last time for a good while. I was reading about a "heated discussion" should a father submit to his adult daughter. My immediate answer is no.
Above I stated that my wife and many like he use sex as part of husband training. A man is trained to associate sex with serving a powerful women specifically his wife or partner. Now I don't think that anyone is the female supremacy movement is promoting incest but the fact is that it becomes hard to disconnect once an association is made. One more reason that female supremacy just seems wrong.
Instead I would suggest that a female led marriage like any other should be kept private. Not out of shame but for the simple reason that it is nobody else business what goes on in your relationship. While it is nice to have friends who enjoy the same lifestyle as you do, your children are not your friends, and even with other couples who enjoy FLR, how much control does one wife allow another to have over their husband?
I know that in my own marriage we are friends with one other couple who enjoy a loving female authority. While I am expected to be a courteous host or guest with them by no means does my wife expect me to submit to the other women in anyway. I am expected to act the way my wife wants, respectful of her, and by extension polite to everyone we are social with.


  1. You must be referring to the post on FemDom101 titled "Crossing A Threashhold".

    Gold stars for you for calling out this nonsense.

    Did you notice, after all the comments left both in support and calling her out, that MK never did define what threshold was crossed? Reason #729 why this claimed D/s relationship is suspect. Additionally, MK claims to have a son, yet she has seldom mentioned him in posts nor comments, other then that he has a girlfriend and she doesn't know if he is submissive. Creepy that she would project her claimed Dom/sub relationship with her husband, upon her son.

    Whatever a husband/wife choose to do in the privacy of there relationship, more power to them. To involve with children in their 'kink', just so wrong.

  2. Your right Sean it is FemDom101, I don't provided links to blogs or sites that I disagree with as I don't want to support them by driving up their traffic.

    If you are interested in reading more on my own views you may want to take a look at "What to do when you've got kids around the house?" here on my own blog.

  3. You and I seem to agree on everything that you have said in this post. To set the scene, I want to point out that I am not a submissive person, except when it comes to my wife.

    A man should not be forced or compelled in any way to submit to his daughter. He has a hard enough time to keep a straight loving attitude looking into her eyes and say "no" when she wants something out of order. Any sexual content is incestual, and for most reasons is wrong.

    Female supremacy is a fantasy of misguided males and some females who achieve monetary gain from advocating it. It is no better than male supremacy, which is totally wrong.

    Between a man and his partner anything goes, and nobody should tell them what to do as long as the relationship is functional and benign.

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  6. I wish I was in a female led marrige. I am single sub and dream of a woman who wants to have a marrige where she leads.